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... Hi Rose, Yes, the occasional 'mindless' project does help. It also keeps my hands busy so I don't end up smoking as much, especially during times such as now when I'm totally stressed out. :) My husband's friend has family in the area but supposedly nobody is willing to take him in. When my husband mentioned this, I told him that should be his first clue...when your... (64 replies)
... has been unemployed and basically homeless since I first learned of him returning to OH in March, 2003. My husband felt sorry for him and felt 'obligated' to help him since he'd helped my husband out when he was kicked out by his parents as a teenager. ... (64 replies)
... I hope you have it there, too. If so, keep those windows open so that hopefully the cool night air and sounds will help you fall asleep. ... (64 replies)

... bank statements and tend to things. I offered help right from the start and was told he had it under control. ... (64 replies)
... off. Presently, he has not spoken to me in a week and a half and I have absolutely NO IDEA why. His father was hospitalized...I sent a plant to him. He needed help with some phone calls...I helped with them. ... (64 replies)
... loving her etc. and goes on with her famous line "you don't know what I have been through". I can I hear my boyfriend calmly explaining that he does love and care about her but that she needs help etc. etc. ... (5 replies)
... We're in our late 30s...My boyfriend of 3 months repeatedly insists that I should "own up" to a label that he gives me of having Borderline Personality Disorder. My Drs. ... (5 replies)
... to him cuz I thought he was just trying to break me and this new guy up. When me and my boyfriend would fight, I would bring up the cheating thing just to piss him off, I never really thoguht he did it. ... (3 replies)
... I am borderline myself, and so was my Mom. So I've been on the giving, and receiving ends of the abuse. ... (7 replies)
... boyfriend also choked me once when he was intoxicated. He has also shoved me before and verbally abused me regularly. A boyfriend should make you better and happier... not make you feel like your life and sanity is being destroyed. ... (48 replies)
... Hey dude i know exactly how you feel its like i have meet some1 in the same exact situation as boyfriend, he gets mad over everything and then the next minute he is the perfect first we thought he was just bi polar but now his parents made him go to rehab, and his therepist suggested that he had BPD and so i looked it up and i found out what it was and i... (7 replies)
... f you're anything like me... and often put the needs of your significant other, before yourself, this book will speak to you. The second one is about people with Borderline Personality Disorder. In this book, people talk about their relationships with people with BPD.. and those with BPD, talk about their struggle with the disorder. ... (48 replies)
... esearch and see if any of them might fit him. His quick mood changes, trying to make everything your fault, making you walk on eggshells. My first guess would be borderline personality disorder. ... (9 replies)
... Caberg, I've read a number of your posts on the Relationship board and have found them articulate and insightful. I also found that they set a level of respectfulness to which I will aspire as I take issue with several of your statements. I agree. None of the posters, however, attempts to render a diagnosis. Indeed, none of us has claimed that a diagnosis is necessary. A... (48 replies)
... A friend of mine actually recommended the book "Walking on Eggshells" and that's when I KNEW that my boyfriend had BPD. ... (48 replies)
... I am borderline, and I have never had suicidal tendencies. I have never physically hurt myself. some do, some don't. I can't stand physical pain. Please don't stay out of guilt, that will make it worse. The ONLY reason to stay is if you truly love him and want to spend the rest of your life with him, knowing that he is borderline. (18 replies)
... I am well aware of the positive traits of BPD. I begged my BPD boyfriend to PLEASE STOP drownding all your wonderful good points with your anger..... ... (15 replies)
... as he needs to help himself first. You have to Want help in order to get better. I think you already know the answer to your question, dear. ... (5 replies)
... I'm so happy for you. You should be very proud.:D I wasted 5 years of my life walking on eggshells around my husband just because he could be nice 75% of the time. Our split is so confusing for some people because he seemed so sweet and so charming to them. Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde indeed. I now have to listen to my mother tell me that fighting is normal in a marriage and... (48 replies)
... to help him pay the last month's rent. I didn't have to, but I didn't want to leave him hanging... even after all he's done. ... (48 replies)

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