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... He knows how to push my buttons. He will think of the most ridiculous things to upset me.... and trust me, he has quite the imagination. ... (48 replies)
... I agree. None of the posters, however, attempts to render a diagnosis. Indeed, none of us has claimed that a diagnosis is necessary. ... (48 replies)
... c all advice on this board is useless, and as far as diagnosing him goes, maybe it would be more PC to say 'he exhibits classic BPD behaviour', as opposed to 'he has BPD', but I think we all get the point here, and our advice would probably be the same. ... (48 replies)

... With all due respect, no one other than a qualified mental health professional conducting a clinical assessment of simplyD's boyfriend could diagnose him as having BPD. ... (48 replies)
... the anger he has carried from childhood started to be triggered by little things you said or did. ... (48 replies)
... The relationship lasts 18 months, he said, when the nonBPD partner has strong personal boundaries. ... (48 replies)
... boyfriend also choked me once when he was intoxicated. He has also shoved me before and verbally abused me regularly. A boyfriend should make you better and happier... not make you feel like your life and sanity is being destroyed. ... (48 replies)
... Hey dude i know exactly how you feel its like i have meet some1 in the same exact situation as me...my boyfriend, he gets mad over everything and then the next minute he is the perfect boyfriend...at first we thought he was just bi polar but now his parents made him go to rehab, and his therepist suggested that he had BPD and so i looked it up and i found out what it was and i... (7 replies)
... I am borderline myself, and so was my Mom. So I've been on the giving, and receiving ends of the abuse. ... (7 replies)
... Well.... I guess I am the only one who actually has BPD. I am also going through a rough time with my boyfriend of almost three years and was thinking that we were really starting to make some progress. ... (48 replies)
... I'm so happy for you. You should be very proud.:D I wasted 5 years of my life walking on eggshells around my husband just because he could be nice 75% of the time. Our split is so confusing for some people because he seemed so sweet and so charming to them. Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde indeed. I now have to listen to my mother tell me that fighting is normal in a marriage and... (48 replies)
... I am home now.. with my family.. who has always been so loving and supportive. It makes me wonder why it took me so long to leave. But when I think about it, I know that it was all part of his plan. ... (48 replies)
... I just wanted to say I had the exact same thing happen in my relationship. I loved him so much when he was good, but hated him so much when he was "bad." There was always something missing in his emotions. Like he said he loved me but I never FELT that it was really there if that makes sense. I always focused on the good times because they were so so good. I would tell... (48 replies)
... A friend of mine actually recommended the book "Walking on Eggshells" and that's when I KNEW that my boyfriend had BPD. ... (48 replies)
... I have boyfriend with BPD and it's very difficult for me to leave him. We argue about the same things over and over again. ... (48 replies)
... Simply D, you need to turn the focus around and away from your boyfriend, and ask yourself why you need to be a resquer. If you feel lonely and need to be needed, may be one reason, but addiction to a person may be another. Perhaps a low self esteem may be the problem lying underneath, or else you would not have stayed so long, nor would you have let others use you as a... (48 replies)
... If a person with BPD wants to change and embrace the disorder then anything is possible. ... (7 replies)
... Posts like these are what got me through this mess. Thank you x100. (48 replies)
... because he's offended you, so you start defending yourself. It has taken me a couple bad relationships to pick up on these patterns. I'm a caretaker, so when I hear "please help me" it is next to impossible for me not to. ... (48 replies)
... THE ANSWERS I AM LOOKING TO GET ARE WHAT ARE THE LONG TERM EFFECTS IT HAS ON ME... OR IF ANY OF YOU WHO DEAL WITH PEOPLE LIKE THIS ON A DAILY BASIS IN A RELATIONSHIP... ... (7 replies)




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