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... c all advice on this board is useless, and as far as diagnosing him goes, maybe it would be more PC to say 'he exhibits classic BPD behaviour', as opposed to 'he has BPD', but I think we all get the point here, and our advice would probably be the same. ... (48 replies)
... I agree. None of the posters, however, attempts to render a diagnosis. Indeed, none of us has claimed that a diagnosis is necessary. ... (48 replies)
... boyfriend also choked me once when he was intoxicated. He has also shoved me before and verbally abused me regularly. A boyfriend should make you better and happier... not make you feel like your life and sanity is being destroyed. ... (48 replies)

... He knows how to push my buttons. He will think of the most ridiculous things to upset me.... and trust me, he has quite the imagination. ... (48 replies)
... With all due respect, no one other than a qualified mental health professional conducting a clinical assessment of simplyD's boyfriend could diagnose him as having BPD. ... (48 replies)
... Hey dude i know exactly how you feel its like i have meet some1 in the same exact situation as boyfriend, he gets mad over everything and then the next minute he is the perfect first we thought he was just bi polar but now his parents made him go to rehab, and his therepist suggested that he had BPD and so i looked it up and i found out what it was and i... (7 replies)
... I am borderline myself, and so was my Mom. So I've been on the giving, and receiving ends of the abuse. ... (7 replies)
... Well.... I guess I am the only one who actually has BPD. I am also going through a rough time with my boyfriend of almost three years and was thinking that we were really starting to make some progress. ... (48 replies)
... I just wanted to say I had the exact same thing happen in my relationship. I loved him so much when he was good, but hated him so much when he was "bad." There was always something missing in his emotions. Like he said he loved me but I never FELT that it was really there if that makes sense. I always focused on the good times because they were so so good. I would tell... (48 replies)
... A friend of mine actually recommended the book "Walking on Eggshells" and that's when I KNEW that my boyfriend had BPD. ... (48 replies)
... I have boyfriend with BPD and it's very difficult for me to leave him. We argue about the same things over and over again. ... (48 replies)
... Simply D, you need to turn the focus around and away from your boyfriend, and ask yourself why you need to be a resquer. If you feel lonely and need to be needed, may be one reason, but addiction to a person may be another. Perhaps a low self esteem may be the problem lying underneath, or else you would not have stayed so long, nor would you have let others use you as a... (48 replies)
... The relationship lasts 18 months, he said, when the nonBPD partner has strong personal boundaries. ... (48 replies)
... the anger he has carried from childhood started to be triggered by little things you said or did. ... (48 replies)
... Posts like these are what got me through this mess. Thank you x100. (48 replies)
... because he's offended you, so you start defending yourself. It has taken me a couple bad relationships to pick up on these patterns. I'm a caretaker, so when I hear "please help me" it is next to impossible for me not to. ... (48 replies)
... and she basically told me 'well if you would've really wanted to talk this over you would've come here after work, but you haven't, which is typical, it always has to suit your plan..', and so on. I told her that was ridiculous because she had told me in every way that she did not want to see me. ... (48 replies)
... Anyway, figuring out he had BPD was like having a huge weight lifted. Understanding that it's not me, and that I can't fix him, has been a huge relief. ... (48 replies)
... This relationship has made you as sick as him. Your sickness is causing you to perceive him as alternately, perfect and then monstrous. ... (7 replies)

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