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... I'm so happy for you. You should be very proud.:D I wasted 5 years of my life walking on eggshells around my husband just because he could be nice 75% of the time. Our split is so confusing for some people because he seemed so sweet and so charming to them. Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde indeed. I now have to listen to my mother tell me that fighting is normal in a marriage and... (48 replies)
... I am home now.. with my family.. who has always been so loving and supportive. It makes me wonder why it took me so long to leave. But when I think about it, I know that it was all part of his plan. ... (48 replies)
... even a few minutes. I quite like my alone time, so you can imagine how stifling and suffocated I feel. When he drinks he becomes really nasty and abusive. He has only hit me once, but swore when he sobored up that he would not do it again. I also don't know why I stay. He is destroying my life and my sanity. ... (48 replies)

... sure that he has BPD. There is not a single doubt in my mind. ... (48 replies)
... IF he has BPD, it is safe to assume that he will not get any better, he will just get worse..... ... (48 replies)
... but he has some of the behaviors. Funny how you said the 15 year thing... ... (48 replies)
... We're in our late 30s...My boyfriend of 3 months repeatedly insists that I should "own up" to a label that he gives me of having Borderline Personality Disorder. My Drs. ... (5 replies)
... I then found out thru extensive research that he has borderline personality disorder, and that the anger is not the problem, the anger is the symptom. ... (64 replies)
... Yeah, my boyfriend has been brilliant at turning this all around on me. ... (32 replies)
... he may have BPD, borderline personality disorder. ... (9 replies)
... look up BPD, borderline personality stems from abandonment issues. I discovered an ex had it when i started coming here and researching anger management. ... (15 replies)
... he has to take responsibility for his own's not your fault.... ... (12 replies)
... husband, and sorry for your sons loss of his father. I don't know if I'm just noticing more things since I've found out my estranged boyfriend has Borderline Personality Disorder, but reading your thread makes me wonder if your husband has it too. My BF is jealous of my dog. ... (53 replies)
Angry boyfriend
Jul 18, 2011
... he's no good for you, and almost sounds like he has borderline personality disorder....nothing you want to mess with..... ... (27 replies)
... re he's going to try either. He's done too much damage already for me to want to give it another try. His mom left him very early and he grew up with his dad who has been a drug addict his whole life. It seems like he also have been having some issues with being abandoned before in his life... ... (3 replies)
... if you really want to change and help yourself, I suggest reading "co-dependent no more". It changed my perspective on things. I used to meet everyones needs to the exclusion of my own (something I learned from my mother). This is the bottom line and pretty much sums up the definition of co-dependency. (48 replies)
... The reason why you don't know what's normal anymore is because you're not spending enough time with people that ARE normal. Try telling your "normal" friends and family the truth. I am 100% sure that they would be worried for you and appalled by his terrible behavior. While it is true that all couples have their problems, there is a HUGE difference between fighting over your... (48 replies)
... I know exactly what you mean. I found myself lying about how great he is... just because I was so ashamed of what people would think of me if they knew the truth... that he treated me horribly. I know it must be hard for others to understand, but in all honesty- you don't owe them an explanation. You know that what you did was right, and I am sure that as time goes on, people... (48 replies)
... Thank you for the advice, I hope I can do the same thing you did.. It is hard, but you get so use to someone being a certain way, you do not know what normal is anymore or how you really should be treated.. (48 replies)
... Hello, I also just posted on the board and I am in a similar relationship. I know deep down it is verbally abusive, he is bi-polar, narcissictic, and I have put up with this for 5 years. He is very charming, everyone thinks he is just wonderful, but they do not know the other side of him. I do love him too and it is so hard to break away but I know in my heart I am a good... (48 replies)

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