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Ex-inlaws
Apr 23, 2012
... Hi all, I posted awhile back and got some great insight from everyone, I am hoping to tap into all of your thoughts again. My boyfriend has two sons and divorced their mother 16 years ago. His best friend is his ex-brother in law. His best friend is married to my boyfriends ex-wife's sister. Anytime we go over there is a chance that his ex-wife or ex-mother or... (2 replies)
... I think you should first be aware that you are in fact dating what is for all intents and purposes, a married man. His wife and kids, his family, take priority and he isn't incorporating you in that at all. And now he'll be spending even LESS time with you? ... (3 replies)
... I was also in the same situation. The only difference is that now I am currently pregnant with my boyfriends child and I feel like I made a mistake. The same way she doesn't want you seeing her kids you are not going to want her to be around your child. ... (13 replies)

... Yes I have been through a similar situation. My ex boyfriend had an ex wife and 2 kids...she would call incessantly too, bugging him for more child support than he was giving or could afford...and they never grew to like me either... ... (8 replies)
... old son and a joint custody. Same exact situation. It was bad because he was so preoccupied with his son and the ex wife was also a very difficult person. I felt the same way you do, a bit insecure and uncomfortable about the whole situation. ... (8 replies)
... Thank you for all your replies. Now I definitely feel like my thoughts are legitimate and natural. My boyfriends son is wonderful and I enjoy being with them together but it's very important we get our alone time. My boyfriend feels the same way. ... (8 replies)
... He doesn't know what he wants? This is speaking very loud! Do you want a man who doesn't know what he wants? Sweet as he is, I am afraid this is not a fair relationship for you. You know that, don't you? I think he should really avoid being much around his ex-wife, because feelings are apt to resurface, right? You don't tell why they separated... I don't think she has... (3 replies)
... This is quite bizarre. He is clearly still emotionally tied to his ex-wife and family. Where do you fit in?? Will you always be tucked away and excluded? Put your foot down. His kids will come first, but you should be up there one tiny pace behind them. It is probably too late to significantly change this year's plans, but if you are his partner, then he must share the family... (3 replies)
... I can tell you that any friends of mine who have been in your situation have done better if they have gotten to know the ex-wife as a person. Ask her advice about the child, etc. There probably is SOMEthing the two of you have in common if he chose both of you to be with. Granted, I wouldn't start in on this quite yet if you'v only been together for 90 days - but over the... (8 replies)
... I still have pictures of my ex wife, and my wife has pictures of her ex husband. It is no big deal to either of us. We don't have any pictures of exes other than ones we were married to though. No point in it. ... (10 replies)
... I'm an exwife and also have to "deal" with an ex wife.... ... (6 replies)
... I have a BIG problem with him ignoring your feelings the way that he is doing. I understand that he is going to be friends with his ex no matter what. I feel the same about the only girl I ever loved but in any relationship feelings must be expressed, examined and acted on. ... (6 replies)
... er 7 months ago. I am crazy in love with him and he loves me and things between us are so good when we are together. He has two young children, one and four. His ex was living at her parents house with the kids until November. ... (3 replies)
... and that he continues to call them daily, see them monthly or so, pay the child support, the ex finds a new love interest to harass, we build a relationship here and everyone moves forward. ... (13 replies)
... It seems like his ex calls everyday for one thing or another. ... (8 replies)
... She wanted the divorce. She had moved on to several boyfriends while they were seperated. I met him at my job and we were friends for months. ... (13 replies)
... Thank you so much....i appreciate you sharing your post and taking the time to write. I will read it for sure! (8 replies)
... Hi There, I don't know if this would help, but please read my post "he still talks to his ex". I know how difficult it is when someone you love with all of your heart still has an attachment to the one he used to be with. I have received some great advice through my post, so maybe it would benefit you to check it out. Good luck with everything... ;) (8 replies)
... She is your boyfriends mother. ... (16 replies)
... Hmmm...well, even if she isn't doing anything behind your back, it does seem as though she's not really taking your feelings into consideration. I'd like to think I'm a pretty reasonable person, but if I were married, and my husband was getting text messages from a woman he used to sleep with saying "hi handsome, I sure do miss you..." I'd be pretty pi$$ed. Does she go out a... (5 replies)


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