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... her for 2 years but more serious the last year. We have been in a long distance relationship but see eachother every month for a week or two strait. We both have things we need to do, save money etc before moving forward. When we are together, we are happy and things are good although he never says he loves me. ... (2 replies)
... in love with a Borderline Personality Disordered girl. I have been with her for 2 years and we were engaged for the last 6 months until last month when she had a break down. ... (3 replies)
... o and it turns out that is the start of when everything went bad. Before the therapist a month prior we had talked about breaking up but decided to try and work things out. ... (4 replies)

... wonderful relationship with this girl for about five months now. I want to know if her behavior is "normal", I know that there really is no normal behavior for BPD cases. She was very upfront and honest from the beginning, telling me that she is borderline. ... (7 replies)
... I have to say I agree. I have had experience with someone who has BPD traits and that guy is a master manipulator like no other. He can turn things around and make it all the other person's fault and believe me, he knows EXACTLY what he's doing. ... (4 replies)
... hile she lay on the ground. He would also publicly humiliate her in front of mutual friends by pointing out her "flaws" in order to get her to behave. These were things I did not know before getting involved. ... (2 replies)
... made because she thought I was looking at or thinking about other women, this was in her head and not mine. She would do things, make threats to pay me back for things I never did. So I never really trusted her and I think this may have some influence on this relationship. ... (19 replies)
... me that before I had told her what I had done she was planning a birthday holiday for us to go on together, that she had hoped to get back together with me after things had settled down a bit. Once again, I could only KICK MYSELF. ... (48 replies)
... I hate to be the one to break it to you, but if you think you can change her by trying to "ward off" some of her extremes, you are going to be in for a long, exhausting, painful ride. ... (15 replies)
... After reading some other articles and posts, I now believe he suffers from BPD and perhaps I should buy a book called "Stop walking on eggshells" or if anyone has any other suggestions for a good book for me to read, it may help me. ... (15 replies)
... and emotional breakdowns. Of course, nobody knows about these things except for the two of us... ... (48 replies)
... well he's supposed to come over tonight when i call him, but i think im going to end things on the phone. maybe it's not the best way. but im sure he's rather not drive 20 min out of his way to have me break up with him. ... (25 replies)
... I would love to share some things and get your take. ... (4 replies)
... One thing that keeps raising its head is that she has said at the begining of the relationship and now again that she has wanted a bit of a break to be alone. Shes never had much freedom with over bearing parents and abusive boyfriends. But with me shes felt safe enough to ask. ... (3 replies)
... esteem. I believe, and I know it based on things he told me, that he has been held in very high regard by these women. ... (7 replies)
... unkind things to me, then he got very strange and I just didnt want to put up with it. That wasn't all of it, though. ... (4 replies)
... just in your post alone. There's a couple of things you must understand. Being a borderline is not something that she HAS, it is something that she IS!!. Those are 2 TOTALLY DIFFERENT THINGS! ... (47 replies)
... got involved but because there was no current abuse he was able to return home. My ex said he would change and tried to for the most part but he is bipolar and BPD so that pretty much says a lot. The next time he got real mad he yelled at my son adn when my son had the chance he booked. ... (25 replies)
... ething being overhead and turned into something it wasn't. It felt good to not feel like I had to beat the clock all the time and talk to my mom about every day things without those turning into a dispute. Don't get me wrong...I still missed my husband. I just didn't miss the abuse. ... (64 replies)

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