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... My last BF was a borderline and that ended a year ago and I have no desire to look for another relationship right now.....that one did me in with the stress and BS of dealing with him. I realized he was borderline after researching anger management. ... (9 replies)
... if you are serious about having a relationship together is to start over. ... (4 replies)
... Yes. But as time goes by I keep getting closer to him...this is the first real relationship I've had, as well as the longest. I want to give my all, and I do trust Eric...he's not a bad guy...but there is so much I can't get over. ... (4 replies)

... ems. It is getting worse as the years go by. The huge ego is a major problem. Very difficult to live with, especailly for someone who just wants a cooperative relationship where two people are equal and enjoy each other. That's what it's all about, right? ... (20 replies)
... Was any medication recommended for your BPD and are you taking it? ... (7 replies)
... Yes, it crept up slowly. First of all it was a few dollars/pounds to help her out, then paying the rent and on top of that, paying her bills. I think I said in the original post, she would criticise me about where all my money had gone as she had more bills to pay. I couldn't believe what I was hearing. Then towards the end, it was like she was 'playing games' and mentioning... (6 replies)
... Is there anyway anyone can break my story down and tell me or at least advise me on wether she could be suffering from bpd or bipolar. I no a diagnosis cannot be given, but from what I've read she shows a lot of traits for someone suffering with this. ... (10 replies)
... cut him loose, this isn't a healthy relationship...... he almost sounds like he could have BPD, borderline personality disorder with his anger issues...... i know how it feels to feel like a mom and not a partner, and to feel taken advantage of.....you need to break free of this situation, the sooner the better. (2 replies)
... look up BPD, borderline personality disorder......it stems from abandonment issues. I discovered an ex had it when i started coming here and researching anger management. your BF sounds like he has this and there is no cure, no fix.....please do not expose your child to this anymore......this is a very serious personality disorder. That aside, even without saying that, this... (15 replies)
... I sure feel for you, meshuggah I think it unwise to try to diagnose someone else, or even yourself, based on an internet questionnaire. Behavior in itself is not a mental disorder. People with BP are not amoral. They do have remorse and a sense of right and wrong. Your wife does not at all seem impulsive. She seems like a deliberate liar and cheat. Clearly she wants to... (4 replies)
... years after that relationship ended for me to want to date ANYONE again......I was so glad to get him out of my life and wanted to be by myself. ... (3 replies)
... i think that you've made the right decision..... you're a very smart man to have ended this and not brought children into this mess.....my guess is that your wife has some type of mental health issues, possibly bi-polar or BPD (borderline personality disorder)...... nothing that you want to pass down to children..... don't let her suck you back into this unhealthy... (4 replies)
... you tell her NO, unless you want to get sucked back into a destructive unhealthy relationship...... I suspect your wife has BPD, borderline personality disorder and NOT bi-polar. why don't you look it up and see if it fits.....this is much more serious than bi-polar and can't be controlled with medication. The reason I suspect this is you mentioned your wife cuts... (2 replies)
... I just wanted to say I had the exact same thing happen in my relationship. I loved him so much when he was good, but hated him so much when he was "bad." There was always something missing in his emotions. Like he said he loved me but I never FELT that it was really there if that makes sense. I always focused on the good times because they were so so good. I would tell... (48 replies)
Another chance?
Jul 25, 2010
... About the tattoo, I was figuring if he had BPD he would have either gotten it ridiculously early in the relationship, or well after there was trouble (part of the I love you/hate you thing). As for his latest email, that's about as obvious a ploy as I've ever read. While it may be very flattering to think that he's making it sound all about you and how much he needs you,... (26 replies)
... I would actually disagree that he cries to manipulate you. I believe his tears are real. He's hurt, upset, etc. etc. People with BPD feel emotions very strongly and it isn't a manipulation. What it is though, is all about them. They aren't tears for you, they're for him. ... (48 replies)
... I admit, I let this relationship completely take control of me... maybe I do need to be needed... or maybe I just can't say no when someone needs my help. ... (48 replies)
... Today, I was out shopping with a friend when suddenly my nose started to bleed... This only happens to me when I'm just plain worn out... and that is what this relationship is doing to me. ... (48 replies)
... Please help me.. please give me that extra PUSH to move out and go on with my life.. I know I need to do it.. I KNOW that this relationship is toxic and I just.. miss my old self... I miss the girl that sings while she drives.. and dances when she's alone... I miss being... happy. ... (48 replies)
... I was diagnosed post traumatic syndrome with BPD last month -- it was a struggle and a rude awakening for me. My honey for two years had to really threatened me before I would wake up from this haze cloudy mind of mine to really seek help. Once I got the help -- I began to feel so much better because I have the tools now to get better and help our relationship grow in a very... (15 replies)


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