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... its could be normal for a little while, and the longer it goes on the more normal it will become. STOP doing it and force yourself to do something else, make a concious decision to stop torturing yourself. What was it that was so great about this guy anyway? ... (12 replies)
... The thing is this... you are now torturing yourself with the whys and all the other useless questions. They aren't helping you, and they are irrelevant. You may never understand why he did the things he did. ... (6 replies)
... Hey, thanks lol, your alright, no trust me i dont sit and wait around the phone i do my own things, and take it day by day and working on my career and the rest will follow not much i can do, you know she lives far away, and she has to contact me if and when she wants to talk, and thats about it i'll listen but thats it, She is one of those girls, that needs to take serious... (37 replies)

... whoever...that you really dont care to hear what she is doing or thinking. She is moving on. If she wasnt, she would be contacting you. The relationship is over. Stop thinking about if she comes back or calls. ... (37 replies)
... ve been holding up as well as could be expected. ... (207 replies)
Shake out of it
Dec 13, 2005
... s only a matter of time before he works up the nerve to officially end it. ... (13 replies)
I am crushed...
Oct 18, 2005
... It breaks my heart to see you blaming yourself for leaving a man who was never good enough for you. ... (30 replies)
... You're totally miserable, you haven't been happy in ages, and it's just not working! Stop torturing yourself by staying and break up with her already! ... (4 replies)
Hes been calling
Jan 28, 2008
... he has suggested meeting up, he has called me twice. shall i suggest meeting up because i can't stand the wait. i don't even know if he wants to get back together. ... (104 replies)
Hes been calling
Jan 28, 2008
... but I think you need to get back together with him and beat this to death. After awhile of you torturing eachother, you will eventually not love eachother, or hate eachother, or feel anything...you will just be done and then you can finally end all this. ... (104 replies)
... I couldn't agree more with the poster who said you were really only torturing yourself at this point by continuing to keep up contact with your ex and holding out any hope whatsoever that you two will end up together. ... (18 replies)
At my wits end!!!
Sep 17, 2005
... Now... as painful as it is going to be to hear this, you really don't have any justification for checking up on his bank account or cell phone activity. You are no longer in a relationship with him and he really owes you no explanation for things he's bought or done. ... (17 replies)
Nice skirt
Apr 2, 2007
... that is why i think him being alone, and not with her, made him realise....and that doesnt make me feel great. wish he realised, broke up with her, then came back to me. but no, it took her breaking up with him and dating someone esle to push him back to me. ... (77 replies)
... d by the psych. that I need to just ride out my feelings. I need to just let my low moments happen and not get so upset that I'm NOT moving on. I can't bottle it up like Ive been trying to do in hopes of expediting the process. She said its all a long process, its a loss, and that we will have our lows and our highs. ... (3 replies)
... you are only torturing yourself. Maybe she is naive or silly, that doesn't make her a cheat. Trust your own knowledge of her. ... (12 replies)
... to the point where it's hard for me to even get up and go to work. ... (337 replies)




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