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... I suspect I'm hooked on the "good side", or "periods of idealization". And it's not about my ego, it's about how wonderful the whole relationship feels during those periods. ... (17 replies)
... I really cannot get over a relationship with a BPD girlfriend. ... (17 replies)
... I just met an old friend of mine, turns out he'd been in BPD relationship before. He also says it's not worth it. But he totally understands me on the "awesome" part. ... (17 replies)

... O. She should speak with a specialist. Especially since a LOT of people with BPD are self harmers, or if they aren't, they begin to be. The longer you're with someone the longer it takes to get over it. You can, and will get over it. ... (17 replies)
... she will.....don't kid yourself. She will try to get back in your life by apologizing, etc. You can absolutely be with someone "normal"......try it, you might like it! ... (17 replies)
... yes, it will be hard to get over because of the intensity of her 'idealization'. ... (17 replies)
... ll, regardless of whether she needs to see a specialist for diagnosis, she sounds like she needs to see a specialist for her behavior. My thought is that you can get over it, it's going to hurt, and take a while, but it will happen. I am not going to tell you to stay away, or get her back. ... (17 replies)
... ally will be totally sure when she's going to switch, but it will happen. The mood instability will wear on you, as well as the impulsivity that many people with BPD display. ... (17 replies)
... I still do not think she'll be back - she threw me away many times already but it never was that serious. I think she will try to get another guy (since "there are plenty of them waiting"), who "would finally treat her as a human being". She's promiscuous enough, good thing at least she didn't cheat while in relationship. She read a lot of material on BPD, I also tried to... (17 replies)
... Don't. I work in mental health and when I see BPD written I know what is meant but still sometimes make the mistake of saying "bipolar D/O". (17 replies)
... this helped me to understand the relationship on an intellectual level, but the emotional side still needs work. ... (17 replies)
... count your blessings she broke up with you......although I'm sure she will be back apologizing and wanting to get back together. That's how BPD works.....they push you away, then try to pull you back in. My advice is don't get pulled back in. ... (17 replies)
... She is a very educated person, so she discovered that she has BPD by herself. Before that, I was just suspecting that something was not right with her, but it only made her extremely mad. ... (17 replies)
... My bad, thought BPD was short for Bi-Polar Disorder- I feel like an idiot now! (17 replies)
... BPD is borderline personality D/O, not bipolar D/O. (17 replies)
... Funny u post this today, my dad has been married to my mom for 29 yrs. Over the yrs she has progressivley gotten worse, worse to the point that my dad was ready for divorce. ... (17 replies)
... Don't get me wrong, but I had the impression that you were playing with her. ... (17 replies)
... No, it's not getting any better for me. In fact, it's getting worse and worse. It's a classical situation - when your mind and you logic tell you one thing and your heart and your feelings - completely the opposite. I'm still surprised, however: I've been into a fair amount of relationships, and breakup was never that hard on me, esp. after a couple of years being... (17 replies)
... feel for you. I know your advice is the best, however,I have tried to forget her in the past, but I fell in love with her, not her BPD. I know she has no control over it , though she was working on it with meds and therapy. ... (31 replies)
... I've only really consciously discovered how bad I get once I was in my last relationship. ... (48 replies)

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