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... s parents helped me to get my own place, helped me out with furniture etc. so after living on my own, travelling to his place every weekend i thought let me move in with him. And so i did. ... (4 replies)
... sensitive and defensive and you seem to be taking the brunt of her frustration from these insecurities. ... (4 replies)
... he keeps on getting defensive and says its my baby too.......I havent implied that the baby isnt...but if i say anything he gets super jealous or whatever the word is....if i say.. ... (3 replies)

... seriously. Instead of reacting with anger or getting defensive, I would be understanding and make every effort to calmly reassure him that he had absolutely nothing to worry about. ... (17 replies)
... So we met to discuss it, and everything was fine until I mentioned to her I was confused as to why she wasn't going to her current boyfriend. Well, she started getting really defensive. ... (10 replies)
Still trying
Nov 16, 2004
... Thanks for that post Kay. I've told him many times that I will not move back in and that is something I tend to stick with. I am not happy there. ... (35 replies)
... It's not necessarily true that all 24 YO guys will have a strong sex drive and want sex regularly. A lot of times in these situations, a lack of sex does indicate a problem within the relationship, but not always... ... (6 replies)
... o me like he is bottled up for the two weeks you don't see each other so of course when you get together it's going to be a lot about sex. He's a guy and is only getting it when you come to town so he's getting his fill so to say. That's my take on that. ... (8 replies)
... r, who's only 2 years older than I am. The other problem is my overbearing mother who lacks consistency and is very hovering. Both of these problems creates hell in our house and sometimes I'm happy not to be living there most of the time. Please bear with me, since this is lengthy. ... (1 replies)
... I say 'seeing', and not 'going out with', because by no means are we in a conventional, serious relationship, although we have been seeing eachother for almost a full year now. ... (66 replies)
... This would concern me more. One of the biggest mistakes I made in my relationship was that I didn't judge him by the company he was keeping. ... (66 replies)
... that is true. but not because it is currently an online relationship, because that is what you do in new relationships. ... (27 replies)
... In response to your question, are you always this nice to your husband, most of the time, I am. I have always been the more rational calm one in our relationship. However, if pushed to far, I can become emotional! ... (297 replies)
... happier and less focused on myself and also coming off a low dose of antidepressants, all around I feel really well and my nearly 7 month old son is the sunshine in my life love him so much. ... (6 replies)
... My relationship sounds similar. I have trouble admitting I'm wrong sometimes, but it's more often than not because of the way my boyfriend brings things up to me. ... (5 replies)
... she told me. She also told me that he was in a round about way causing trouble between us, and she tried to get him to stop. ... (28 replies)
I'm getting bored
Aug 30, 2004
... this feeling of boredom. It seemed like he never tried to think of anything to do when we'd go out, he never did the "little things" anymore and we seemed to be in a routine. I confronted him about it and of course he got defensive and a bit upset. ... (2 replies)
... ibly working there too, as they had made it out to be a great job. I suggested that maybe I could just get separate shifts from my gf, just to avoid any problems in that area. ... (19 replies)
... Hi,, Its really hard to tell how wrong I was in the relationship...I really feel like I was constantly trying..But I also feel like I had the upper hand and seemed to give up way more often than him... ... (38 replies)
... you can skip to the bottom if u want to just get straight to my advice, but i included some of my backround in my ended relationship. ... (8 replies)

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