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... I really have no one I can share this with, so here I am exposing my ugly deeds on a message board in hopes of getting some kind of helpful advice. I already know that having an affair is a horrible thing and feel guilty just as I should. ... (29 replies)
... If I have a strong physical and sexual attraction to a coworker who is married, I would definitely not allow myself to be alone with him, getting drunk and hope he would not take advantage of the situation. ... (18 replies)
... Please excuse my saying so, but I think you have bigger problems than just ending the affair. I think you need to look at why the affair even happened in the first place. ... (9 replies)

... order to come back together later. When we met, we agreed to a casual relationship. I didn't agree until I realized that I really enjoyed his company and talking to him. ... (5 replies)
... I had never considered that the "confidential conversation" might have been a set up. I would hate to think he would do that to me, but I'm sure there are a lot of things I don't know or realize about him. ... (18 replies)
... understand why you would be in so much pain, but I don't see any "circle of cheaters" here. Just a woman who knows she made a mistake in allowing feelings for a married man go too far and getting support on how to move past it, put her feelings in perspective and end everything with him before it goes any further. ... (90 replies)
Aug 28, 2004
... I never thought that I'd be one to cheat, but I did once. Not something I'm proud of, but not exactly something that I completely regret either. I wasn't looking for an affair either. ... (165 replies)
... I think it's great that you told your husband your true feelings about your marriage, and it sounds like you are making an honest effort to salvage your marriage, and I applaud you for that. ... (174 replies)
... My ex partner ended our relationship in June '07 and I had a real problem getting over it as we had a mutual set of friends and were both involved in the same theatre group. ... (10 replies)
... ot even be remotely interested in you. Something that I used to find really confusing when I was younger is that as a female you can be friendly and approachable to a guy with no intention whatsoever, and men can often misinterpret this as "something between you". I think that is what you are doing. ... (15 replies)
... All marrriages ended with his having an affair. ... (42 replies)
... Years ago I started asking for help on this board. I told of my married girlfriend, and of my relationships that followed. I got a ton of good advice which I ignored completely. ... (0 replies)
... eople are taking a disapproving stand and chastising you for this situation. I hope that doesn't stop you from updating us and seeking advice if you need a place to vent as things progress... ... (106 replies)
What to do?
Sep 6, 2004
... I know, it's not easy to just jump and change your life around totally. I know a lot of people who would tell me, and who have told me, to just get over my ex, forget about him and move on. While they are well intentioned and I truly appreciate it, it's just not that simple. ... (74 replies)
... Well its fortunate for you your husband is willing to be civil. Mine is not. He said he wanted to take the kids from me to get back at me for the affair I had. And since the custody evaluator agreed it was cut and dried. Apparently where I live the judge almost always goes with the eval. recomendation. ... (13 replies)
... I can totally relate to you. I had the same thing. ... (28 replies)
... We have two lovely daughters whom I love to death! ... (28 replies)
... Another way to make sure you dont go back to him is let his wife know about the whole thing. Once his wife knows for sure she will either demand he stop or she will leave him herself. ... (18 replies)
... There are a couple angles that need to be looked at here. One, what kind of father do you think this man is being? ... (90 replies)
... We met when I was 20, and moved in with each other almost a year later. I grew up in a different country but after meeting him, I moved to the UK to study a subject that was not available at my local university. ... (10 replies)

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