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... that. You may want to redirect that ultimatum without making it seem like one by telling him you wish you could see him but cannot consider it unless if he is getting help. Put the responsibility back on him, not on you. If he's online frequently, I would sit back to see if he approaches you. ... (64 replies)
... stems from your gut instinct that not all is right. I fully agree with Music. And I agree that all these issues should be sorted out before you even think about getting married. Marriage won't make them better. Marriage won't take away your bf's insecurities. Marriage won't take away your fear of commitment. ... (16 replies)
... told me on the phone that morning that he wanted to give me the gift that evening I would have been perfectly okay with that. The idea of him not wanting to walk through work holding flowers disappointed me about his personality. It made me think he was insecure and not confident or comfortable with himself. ... (41 replies)

... o it. After all he is still a human, it's just not possible to say there's nothing else to him, and that there isn't some reason he acts as he does, like to much insecurity about himself. ... (39 replies)
What to do?
Sep 5, 2004
... ols to stand on your own and make decisions that are based on integrity and strength of character. Rather it sounds to me your decisions have been based on fear, insecurity and hurt and loneliness. I'm not saying that makes you a bad person, but a person that does need to work on herself. ... (74 replies)
DOnt understand
Aug 14, 2003
... Always getting mad at me when I go to the store, or want to shop with a friend... ... (11 replies)
... I have tried talking to friends about this issue but I don't find them mature enough to be able to give me a straight answer or experienced in the matter. The problem I have is I have been with my gf for almost two years now & when we met she was very broken had trust issues insecurity issues & asked me to get with her because she craved attention & desire to be wanted. ... (0 replies)
... I've just read through your post, and I've been in the same boat, so I'm going to start this out with.... ... (21 replies)
... esn't appear that anyone here is going to be able to help you. This is one of those cases where truly the only option you can explore is therapy to help you work through your insecurity and paranoia. ... (4 replies)
... She actually brought up the number of partners while we were getting to know eachother on our first couple of days so we both said our number. ... (6 replies)
... I know that if I am getting negative about anyone I need to spend some time alone to look at my own faults and change my own attitude. To me it's refreshing to spend time alone. ... (77 replies)
... well, now he's telling me that i was right and we should wait. however, his insecurity still haunts me as it probably will continue to haunt him unless he gets help for it. my heart tells me it's not meant to be. ... (4 replies)
No Trust in Here
Oct 23, 2008
... If the answer is yes then maybe you need to rethink your relationship here. You shouldn't have to stop having friends, male or female, just because you are getting married. Personally, I think the whole stigma of friends of the opposite sex is ridiculous. ... (4 replies)
... He needs to learn to appreciate you for who you are, what you have done for and have gone through with him, and prove to you that he is serious about the marriage. ... (73 replies)
... Your are incredibly insecure. Everybody knows this. Because of this insecurity you can't believe that anybody actually likes you for you. ... (73 replies)
... Before you file for divorce, before you go back to school, maybe working with a councelor or therapist to work through all your childhood stuff. Get rid of the source of the guilt and insecurity. ... (41 replies)
... o trust anyone when you have been dupped before. You had asked me earlier how my appt's had went. I am hoping that this new doctor can help me, since I just keep getting worse. ... (86 replies)
... When I am upset, it is so difficult for me to focus my energies on anything at all. I just become unmotivated and too jittery to concentrate. I can't even get through a whole movie sometimes. I'd love to talk to someone, even a professional, but I don't really have money for that either. ... (10 replies)
... ngs show me that he's not exactly driven, doesn't know who he is, and doesn't have a goal for the future beyond that. I've had to deal with my parent's financial insecurity for my entire life, and success means something to me because I don't want to have my children go through the same thing. ... (8 replies)
... But getting into the "paranoid" part... ... (5 replies)

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