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... Your girlfriend needs help NOW!! Something is real wrong with her, and if someone don't do something, I hate to think of what may happen! ... (17 replies)
... I've been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half. We are 33 years old. ... (17 replies)
... Not only is it manipulating it is also very childish. (17 replies)

... Guy - This may sound cold, but it's HER decision, if she wants to hurt herself. It just burns me up when other people pull stuff like this! I had a boyfriend threaten suicide when I was 18, if I broke up with him. Boy was I messed up from that. Oh and by the way.....he didn't do it. I since have learned that people are responsible for their own actions, and I no longer... (17 replies)
... She's ACTUALLY tried to hurt herself. I agree it's manipulating, though. (17 replies)
... she's not really nuts, she's just found a way to manipulate you you won't leave her if you're afraid she will hurt herself......get it? (17 replies)
... this is a tough situation. she needs help, does she realize that? i cant imagine to feel like you need out of the relationship but feeling like you have to stay for her to stay sane. thats just weird, ive only ever heard of teens doing this type of thing. is there a wway you can talk about this where you can just say you need a break and she needs to calm down? whatever you... (17 replies)
... That's probably a good idea. I can tell her that I won't move in with her until she seeks counseling for this problem. (17 replies)
... Your girlfriend has very real mental health issues if she is doing what you say she is doing. ... (17 replies)
... I personally wouldn't move in at all - decide whether you want to marry her first!! :angel: (17 replies)
... Oh God no, don't move in. She will get worse, more me on this. There is no timetable on when you "should", do need to trust your gut instinct. It's telling you NO!!! Listen to it! (17 replies)
... Yes. Much of the reason we are having trouble right now is because she is basically demanding that we move in together. I'm still not quite ready to do that because she tries to control how much time I spend with her. Maybe after 18 months we should be living together - I'm not sure. Maybe I have too many outside hobbies - I'm not sure. But I do know that I'm not... (17 replies)
... LOL - Guy that was a good one...... like they say, fight fire with fire! (17 replies)
... Maybe I should threaten to hurt MYSELF if we DON'T break up. (17 replies)
... For what it's worth, I can't recall her ever doing anything remotely like this, except for times when we have discussed a possible break up. (17 replies)
... We argued again last night, and she started pounding on the wall and then ran out of my house claiming she would drive off a cliff. She ended up not going anywhere, and we talked for awhile and made things OK for now. When things are good, I love her. But we have a bunch of space issues that make the relationship difficult for me. Thanks for the tips. I'm still not sure... (17 replies)
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... Call the cops or a mental institution. Break up, and have them put her on suicide watch. Seriously. (17 replies)
... nted. And I worked on those and improved on them and she acknowledged this. She just didn't appreciate this. She also didn't understand how what she was doing to herself was affecting me and her mother. ... (10 replies)
... It almost as my girlfriend is deliberately trying to destroy me. ... (9 replies)

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