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... I took the day off today, but didn't play golf like I had planned. I text message her this afternoon, since she was at work and I didn't want to call her there. My first text " Thought about where we stand? I am making the effort. My #1 priority is you and our relationship. If you don't want that, be fair and say so. I love you." She reponds" you haven't been fair to me." I... (71 replies)
... want me to leave. I felt I was doing something good by moving close as we had been together for only a year at that point. I thought it would be good to let our relationship grow and also be convenient to get together living so close. I always stayed with her on the weekends and usually one night during the week. ... (71 replies)
... men these days never give them selves time to heal.. i never understand that.. you get out of a long long ltr relationship and then men just jump into a new 1 just like that.. insane.. thats not healthy.. for mouse on mars i can totally relate to you on the bipolar issue.. ... (19 replies)

... m not the kind to hold a grudge or dwell on the negative but I would like to have a reasonable relationship with her and help her for herself and the kids. I do not feel as though I need her as I have never had love, respect, and support from her. ... (22 replies)
... Hey Deb...........I feel your pain. I have been married to a man whose mom has been a problem for 31 years. She tried to ruin our relationship from the very beginning and she destroyed our wedding. ... (12 replies)
... If it helps at all, try to remember that the people who were upset with you for staying in the relationship were only upset because they loved you. It doesn't excuse their behavior, but maybe after you talk to someone about it you will feel differently. ... (11 replies)
... Well it has just hit the year mark this past week actually. I mean I really am a different person since. Yes I have learned alot from the experience and I guess that is the important part. I guess what bothers me.. is well I should have known better.. you know? To even get involved with a person like that. I mean I am a smart person. But prior to this always wore my heart on... (11 replies)
... I suspect that she's very annoyed with you for having 'interfered in her relationship', as she would see it. It's likely she's going to maintain that grudge anyway and there's really nothing you can do about that hon. ... (12 replies)
... I think I am holding a grudge, even though I don't want to. He knows that I am different with him. We both have always been openly affectionate with eachother and with the kids. I am a very open person and so is he. It is obvious that I still am very affectionate with the kids, but I am not with him. I will be at work and think nice things about him, and think to myself that... (6 replies)
... Well, on the one hand, I'm really glad you haven't given up yet, that's the last thing I want you to do, I'm just saying that's what seems to work best in my case. Seeing how devoted my ex is to his wife, and how willing he is to bend to her temper and whims when he would never listen to a thing I ever said, and my being the only woman he treated the way he did, I can see now... (161 replies)
... ogether! But his dark side is ruining everything! I mean, I know I"m pretty easy to get along with, and even if I have an argument with someone, I don't hold a grudge for long, so if he could be the same way, we could have a great relationship. But he's not. ... (161 replies)
... While I would normally agree in other situations, when it comes to one in which there was abuse, which I know Nini experienced in her relationship with her ex, there is almost a necessity to let the abuser know that you are no longer his victim.... ... (71 replies)
... having cheated even though he got a blowjob from a prostitute. I personally wouldn't want anything to do with someone who had such a double standard and held a grudge against me while pretending he was still happy in our relationship. ... (11 replies)
Help
Aug 17, 2005
... To want to make a relationship succeed and know that it requires "work". ... (4 replies)
... hey all, i am new to this an im in need of some desperate advice,preferably males sorry this is long... i am totally stressing out right now i feel i have messed up my reputation with my boyfriend, all through our relationship i have tried to be cool, easy going and relaxed about the delicate issues of 'porn' and 'other women' but lately i feel myself becoming more and more... (4 replies)
... Going to your son to question his wife's motives is not a good idea. Should this lead to a heated discussion, your son might start holding a grudge against you and become defensive with regard to his new wife. ... (8 replies)
... my advice is that if someone cheats on you for whatever reason, cut your ties with them for good. Humans like to believe that they can be high and moral and forgive and forget, but the reality is we can't, not with a lover or a spouse. Your need to have someone in your life may convince you that you can get over her actions, but in the long run, over the course of your lives... (45 replies)
... re speaking "at" your partner, that there is a deeper problem somewhere in your relationship. Maybe lost your connection or one person is subconciously holding a grudge against the other. In Weasel's case, it may be because she is wanting to get married and have children. I know that it's easy to do. ... (7 replies)
... bring the cake and leave right away or not come at all. There's never an excuse why she does this. I do not have bad kids, my house is nice.....I don't know what grudge she is carrying. ... (2 replies)
Mr. Nice Guy
Oct 27, 2004
... I know at the heat of the moment I know anger will toss emotions and even thowing of the hands. I hate fighting because it makes me feel so terrible and the thing I hate about it is not able to get my point across. Its not about having last word but its about just getting out my point since the other had thier chance. I am stuck on this one because if I hold back from... (43 replies)




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