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... I separated from my husband. Don't say guilt is killing me. Say I am sorry, but I have to move on with my life. Or something that doesn't make you feel stuck. ... (29 replies)
... Oh my gosh Karen, sounds almost exactly like me. I know exactly how you are feeling. I've been separated now for two months. My husband also wants me back but only for his own happiness, not mine. My husband is also a good man but he also had his hobbies at the expense of me. ... (2 replies)
... Many people may claim they can live without guilt, but to me they are basically denying their human nature. Anyway, no extreme is healthy enough. ... (29 replies)

... My marriage has had many things wrong with it as far as I'm concerned. Bottom line is I felt like I had nothing more than a roommate who I also cooked for, washed his clothes, cleaned his house, everything. ... (29 replies)
... I think counseling is a very very good idea for you. ... (29 replies)
... leave, but I also think it's good to keep in mind that each case is unique. ... (29 replies)
... first. I think the idea of switching the apartment is a great idea, otherwise, I'd get another place that alows all your cats. ... (29 replies)
... You gave far too much of yourself to get nothing in return. The saddest thing is that you stuck it out as long as you did. You deserve to put you first. ... (29 replies)
... Have you considered that alongside your guilt is normal honest grief for the death of your marriage? ... (29 replies)
... Do you know what most men tell their wives when the situation is reversed? ... (29 replies)
... I don't know if I have much advice for you. But I wanted to say that I understand what that guilt feels like. It will make you go back to someone you don't truly love. The guilt hurts so darn bad it can ruin everything good trying to happen to us. ... (29 replies)
... body whose jaw would drop when they heard all the things I did for him. We were in a house together that needed repairs and he did so very little and only after me nagging him. This is a 50 year old man who plays video games on every spare minute he is not at work. ... (29 replies)
... r 25 years. The reasons are many, we've had some trouble for the last 10. I reconnected with an old male best friend and unfortunately, had an affair. The affair is still ongoing and he wants to marry me, says I've always been the love of his life. He's never married. ... (29 replies)
... free happiness. Maybe because I've always put others first, me last. Make sure everyone else is happy, warm, fed, and taken care of. It was enough for a long time because I didn't know any better. ... (29 replies)
... As I said...after 25 years, he's not going to change...heck, he can't even pretend to change!:( (29 replies)
... ls apart. I didn't mention this earlier...he came over Sunday to my apartment to drop something off he said. Instead he took a nap on my brand new bed and wanted me to fix him something to eat when he got up. I didn't and told him he needed to leave. ... (29 replies)
... How he does it is not your concern. Then, when the lease is up on your apartment you can move back to your house. ... (29 replies)
... The house is in both of our names. I am renting my apartment. I am continuing to make the house payment as I don't want my credit to suffer. ... (29 replies)
... Yes he is my solace. He and I talk every single day about this and he has said everything you all have said. ... (29 replies)
... dependent. Put your foot down and tell him straight up that no, he cannot move in with you, that simply is NOT going to happen. I also agree with the poster who said you should file for a legal separation. That's the only way to protect your credit and your resources. ... (29 replies)

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