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... got pregant, had my daughter may of '99 and married september of "99. continued to go to full time school, and went straight to college after high school. my husband on the other hand was not as ambitious as i was, and held on to under paid, non insured employment up to this point. ... (9 replies)
... I had never truly gotten over him but believed that i was trying to contact him for a catch up as the younger generation seem to do. When we met it was instant chemistry. ... (2 replies)
... I left my husband after 25 years. The reasons are many, we've had some trouble for the last 10. I reconnected with an old male best friend and unfortunately, had an affair. ... (29 replies)

... GET OVER IT!!! ... (29 replies)
Where to begin...
May 24, 2006
... lize that it's over, how can he like living this way, and why he may not truly be "acting". I don't want crazyasthewind to carry around anger believing that her husband intentionally "manipulated" her all these years when she has enough anger already from the things he has REALLY done. ... (9 replies)
... est letter ever, and the most hurtful. She told him over and over not to tell me about her and his father being in contact since he and I were engaged and how my husband told her every aspect of our marriage, all our fights, problems and even my issues between my son and I when I was still intergrating into the family. ... (18 replies)
When is it over?
Apr 25, 2007
... nths ago and we moved about 400 miles away from home. Since we have been here, I have made many new friends and I feel like I have really stopped caring about my husband as he is always working and when he's not, he's usually drinking. ... (1 replies)
... husband doesnt know any of this and I'm afraid I give off to him my anxiety over it. He sees this and wonders why i am like this. I can't tell him, for sure he would leave. He and I have mentioned divorce in the past. ... (13 replies)
... comments more. The points you made are so spot on. I have known people who have gone through the very same scenarios. When the wife eventually does leave, the husband is crying how he never knew his wife would leave, he never knew she wasn't happy, he never knew this, never knew that. ... (11 replies)
... trips are what got me. You can't fall for them. Once he has you back in his grip it will start all over again, and most likely be even worse because you betrayed him and he will have to "teach you a lesson". ... (22 replies)
... it will also kill all sense of guilt for leaving that Ruth so desperately wants me to feel. ... (221 replies)
... if he had felt a little responsibility toward me as a fellow human being who cared about him. But I DON'T hold him responsible for how I handled, and handle, his leaving me. many people on these boards hammered me on the head about how awful I was being, how I was making him out to be this awful evil person. ... (56 replies)
... just decency. i'm not saying go through councilling etc, but a simple, i'm leaving you, i've been hurt, it didn't work out face to face is what i'm suggesting. no need to draw it out. ... (41 replies)
... making seems silly and unnecessary at this point, and realistically, it doesn't sound like there's any way her husband will even want to smooth things over and part on good terms right after she says she's leaving. ... (41 replies)
... My husband was gone a lot because of various jobs a lot during our marriage. ... (43 replies)
... Staying with your partner because you feel guilty about leaving him because of all his problems, if you then see another guy for lunch etc will only make you feel even more guilt anyhow. ... (8 replies)
... I have a feeling that a lot of this guilt is being laid on you by your husband. ... (41 replies)
... I have times with my husband all the time like you had last night with your bf. I love my husband and I enjoy his company. I really do. That's what makes it so hard. ... (14 replies)
... myself, and that he's leaving me...sober is a different story. I'm not sure what's going to happen, but I know I don't want a lifetime with an active alcoholic. ... (10 replies)
Advice needed
Jul 7, 2010
... ever her mother took her away from everyone she knew. While with her mother, her mother didn't let her finish counseling and had a break down of her own. She was leaving her at home, going to the bars and bringing random guys home. ... (14 replies)

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