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... Im looking for a bit of advice as I've never been in this situation before. Ive been with my boyfriend for 18 months and we moved in together last year. Since we moved he's put on a lot of weight and feels that he is worthless. ... (12 replies)
... I apologise if ive been 'sounding off' too much, Im just trying to include things that I think are relevant for either the cause or result of his low self esteem. Think i need to come to a conclusion rather than mulling everything over again! ... (12 replies)
... I am sort of in the same position as your bf. I have very low self esteem that effects my sex life. While I do still have sex, I dont take my clothes off, and the lights have to be off. ... (12 replies)

... There's nothing you can do to help him improve his self-esteem. It's something he will need to work through on his own. You can certainly try to encourage him, but he has to learn to love himself before he can actually love anyone else. Unfortunately, I don't see this relationship lasting if he can't work out his issues about himself. And that wouldn't be your fault, it... (12 replies)
... lso treats me like a 5yr old and i'm nearly 42. A lot of stuff she has said to me from when i was a child and the style in which she raised me added to a lot of esteem issues at one point. I realised that it wasn't me, that it was her. ... (12 replies)
... I really feel for you and truly understand where you are coming from and what you are experiencing. So many things that you have said about your boyfriend are so similar to my exhusband. ... (12 replies)
... The thing that worries me the most is the statement he made about you not knowing what's going on in his head. He may have esteem issues regarding being overweight, but i think there is more than that going on in his head. ... (12 replies)
... shamed about himself that he cant even talk to me about it. I said to him he needs to tell me so i can help him through his issues, otherwise im just watching my boyfriend fall apart in front of me and its really not good for me to bear the brunt of all the repercussions. ... (12 replies)
... He doesnt drive so he cant get to the gym in the day. I go straight from work and Ive offered to come home and pick him up after work and take him but he's too self conscious to go when its busy at that time of day. ... (12 replies)
... I would not like my boyfriend looking at porn. ... (10 replies)
... I sort of joked him about it but felt crushed, depressed, not worthy and just utterly low all week long. I didn't know what to do! All my friends tell me its no big deal, all men do it, we don't care that our guys do it, etc. ... (10 replies)
... gular night when there isn't any stress. Maybe he will be more willing to open up then. Some things that can cause a loss of sex drive can be stress, depression, low self esteem, so look into any of those causes. Just being understanding and a good listener can cause someone to get that little spark back. ... (6 replies)
Oral Sex?!?
May 11, 2006
... Wow, you have hit it right now! This is EXACTLY how I feel and I believe that it's the underlying issue in all my relationships. I'm really not sure how to overcome this one. My boyfriend, I feel, I starting to get worried that our intimate moments are limited to intercourse and that I'm not very responsive. It gives me a great amount of fear knowing this and it also hurts... (25 replies)
... razy....well the reason of my rantis, I believe yes ur wife might be experiencing something hormonal, which can explain her lack of sexual desire, but if she had self esteem issues before this hormonal thing happened , the hormonal disorder will make it worse. ... (17 replies)
Ogley Eyed Men!!
Dec 4, 2003
... I used to have a boyfriend who would do this exact same thing. He seemed to make darn sure to be so obvious about it, and it was like he was intentionally trying to upset me. ... (7 replies)
Learning Sex
Apr 5, 2001
... e some emotional stability first or as well. There are so many young girls who have sex when they're not ready because they're afraid they're going to lose their boyfriend if they don't. To me, that shows low self esteem. ... (6 replies)
... I am a successful professional adult with a good job and education. I grew up in a household where my father did not show love and my mother had low self esteem. My current boyfriend and I have issues with not having enough in common, plus his temper and I am not sure he is the one that I should marry. ... (1 replies)
... Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now, we are happy and previously had amazing sex, we use toys, lingre and roll play. ... (1 replies)
... I have sex now for almost 3 years. I had my first time with my ex boyfriend, (a 2 ears relationship), and I never orgasemd. Now I think it was because I dindn't love him really and because of my main problems of low self-esteem and thinking way too much ALL the time. I read that most women have their first orgasm during maturbation in the age of 13-15, but I never did it.... (0 replies)
... Thanks Audrey! Yes, his nan tells his mum whenever we've been round and she wonders why we dont pop in while we're there. But his nan is just as stubborn as his mum, and she wouldn't listen to what he says, she would tell her anyway. His mum can be really nice when she wants to be, and I think the longer we haven't seen her for, the nicer she seems, so we're happy to keep it... (12 replies)


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