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[COLOR=DarkOrange][FONT=Comic Sans MS]Hey there! :wave:

I am not a guy I am a girl but I think I may be able to help! I am only 21 so I have been out of High School for 4 years. But I remember what it is like! :rolleyes: Honestly, I wish I would have been able to do this myself in school, but you should just be outright upfront and forward w/ him!!! Just tell him how it is! That is how I got my husband... we were just like you and you friend.. one day I looked at him and said these exact words " Alright look, what is going on here... I am getting mixed signals from you, I like you and I want to know where we are going w/ this relationship" its all history from there... we have been married for a year and a half... not to say you will marry this guy lol... but its the 21st century... women have to stand up and be proud for who we are.... trust me... you will feel good about it when its all over with... if he says he likes you and you get together great... if he says he doesnt like you like that.. only as friends.. well then at least you were not drug on w/ the thought of it any longer and you can get on w/ your friendship!! I hope this helps you out! Let me know how it goes if you decide to be upfront!!!

Have fun while your young...
Thanks so much for all of your great advice!

Brujeria- “A GIRL IS THE MOST ANNOYING THING IN THIS WORLD, right next to tampon commercial. but hey, love u ladies, i can't live with out u girls. (by the way, if this guy turns out not liking u and just wants to "hang out" hes gay, i'm sorry)”

HAHAHAHAHA!!!! :D Yea, I was only kidding about the annoying thing, but hahaha :). Anyway, thanks so much for your advice, I’m going to hang out with him Friday night, so I’m just gonna tell him then, because I’m so sick of knowing nothing at all, and you’re right, if he doesn’t like me, screw him, I’ll find others! :p

Natasha1981- I like your story. “Tell him you really like a guy but you're too shy to tell him. See his reaction. Ask him if he's ever felt that way before. If he says yes, then he's probably shy. Boys and men at ANY age are afraid of rejection.” –the rejection part is so true!!! My best guy friend was scared to death of rejection!

When "Bob" asked me who I liked, he said that I didn’t have to tell him who it was because he probably “wouldn’t know him anyway”, and then I said, “oh, you’d be surprised”. All of the sudden, he said “what?” in an excited voice, and then I said, “Never mind”, and he said, “Oh…. Okay.” Soo… I’m guessing that’s a good sign.

Yesterday, I was hanging out with some friends, and they were bugging me about him saying that we both like each other, and then my phone rang and it was him asking me how my v-ball game was because he couldn’t come watch it. So, I think he likes me, and I’m just going to tell him while keeping in mind all of your advice! :)

Everyone that knows the both of us (which isn't many, but anyway...) are always saying that we both like each other or that we’re going out (because we hang out so much), so I’m hoping everyone is not full of it, because they sometimes are!!!

Once again, thanks so much for everything, and if anyone has anything else, I’d be more than happy to read it! :bouncing:

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