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Hi,

Lately, for some reason, I keep feeling mad and frustrated about the fact that this girl I like used to have a boyfriend. I know it sounds imamature, but it never used to bother me before, until now. I know she doesn't have any feelings for him--at least I don't think so, but the other day she was waring a hat, that she said her ex-boyfriend gave it to her. After that I started feeling down. I don't know who this guy is, but I keep thinking to myself: "Why did she give him a chance, but not me?"

I'm friends with this girl, but how can I stop the fact that she used to have a boyfriend from bothering me!? It's driving me nuts, and it is lowering my self-esteem!!!!!!

Aaahhh!!!
Thanks, and sorry I wasn't to clear. She doesn't have a boyfriend, EX-Boyfriend is what I should have said. She is not dating anyone now, nor am I. She knows how I feel about her, and I've put it words(this is the girl I gave that letter too, and btw she loved it), She told me "We can be friends!" with a huge smile on her face, which made me happy anyway. I think things are getting better though. We did almost see a movie together along with a couple of other friends, but she had to go out of town. I'll just have to try again. This anxiety is slowly fading away, and I usualy feel better about problems once I see her, so hopefully this frustration will go away.
[QUOTE=Will M.]Thanks, and sorry I wasn't to clear. She doesn't have a boyfriend, EX-Boyfriend is what I should have said. She is not dating anyone now, nor am I. She knows how I feel about her, and I've put it words(this is the girl I gave that letter too, and btw she loved it), She told me "We can be friends!" with a huge smile on her face, which made me happy anyway. I think things are getting better though. We did almost see a movie together along with a couple of other friends, but she had to go out of town. I'll just have to try again. This anxiety is slowly fading away, and I usualy feel better about problems once I see her, so hopefully this frustration will go away.[/QUOTE]


WIll,

Just take your time with things and don't push your fellings for her to her in a way that she may hold back. The letter was a great idea and now she knows how you feel.

But what she may need right now is some time to figure out what she wants. Continue being a good and caring friend. Hopefully she will see past that and give things a chance, but if she doesn't just be glad that she has chosen you to be a friend. And let me tell you that she is lucky to have a caring friend like you.





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