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I am so sorry to hear all of this:( The men and women are very strong in this war... I thank them every day for what they are doing. .I dunno if this makes much sense but ill tell a bit of my story. I met this guy who was in the army Seemed like a great guy, we talked a lot were friends at first hung out a lot. He'd tell me about all his girlfriends and things about them that never should be said. I should of noticed but I didn't. We dated we weren't ever bf/gf even though many times he'd wanted it. While we were dating he still constantly brought up all the other girls that he'd meet and hook up wiht and what not and I didnt' understand what was going on!!!! It was really frustrating. Well lets just say i was the one who lost contact with him, he got to the point where his only converstaion was about girls and his problems with them. I tried to help but I couldn't... I just couldn' tunderstand what was going on.. I was 17 going on 18 at the tie. Well i didnt' talk to him for the longest time ( i hadn't talked to him for a while because he took one of my best guy friends up to a party wit a few of his friends got him really drunk and left him.. wiht a girl just left him like 4 hours away) Well anyways I went to england for two weeks I didn't know it them but he had be sent off to Iraq.... i had always been thinking about him just saying i just want to be his friend i want to talk to him i want to know whats going on... And yet i still had no clue.. Next thing i know he gets online and hes like im in iraq. why weren't you talking to me I didnt' know you went to england.. It started off fine then went straight to " my best girlfriend wrote me and told me how in love wiht me she was" lol i was like this boy has not changed. I finally saw him when he came back and it was weird but good. His personality has changed, he's here and there, not like he used to be. I just hugged him and let him know that i was glad to see him alright. He still hasn't changed his ways wiht the girl thing. mMY mom said hes trying to make me jealous.. But the one main thing i notcied about him was he was very im not exagerationg veyr full of himself and just needed confidence and a friend. I dunno how this story makes any sense about war or not.. All i know is that war changed him and actually helped his self esteem.. I think he is more confused about things more then he has every been.. And i think realization hit him and he doesnt' know how to handle it.. We are still friends and talk and he is getting better. But some advice for you, your guy is probobly extrememly confused, kinda sounds to mee like what my "guy" was doing about the whole girl thing. He knows your there for him so he knows he can always come back to you, hes probobly trying to make your jealous because he wants to see if your actually true to your word. Just be his friend don't take it further you are still young.. You seem comfused but seem to have a great head on your shoulders. I hope that he is alright and you keep him in line missy!!!! lol things will probobly end up working out, but if it doesn't just remember, this is a memory that you WILL always want to keep. Just be tehre to listen to him, don't bring up your past relationship. even though it may hurt.. Just lend ihim a shoulder have him get your trust back.. I wish you all the luck in the world. -chrys:)

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