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Oh yeah. I had that too. But I mean what fun is it to hear you're pretty etc. when they're only saying it so you stop whining? I mean them giving you compliments isn't going to change the person you are. The only reason is it's going to make you feel better about yourself, but you don't need other people for that. When somebody tells you you look good, that doesn't make you look good cause they say it. You just do. Whether they say it or not. And when you're whining like that you're really pushing others away who get sick and tired of it. What you could do, is ask them. Do you like how I did my hair today? Instead of saying ahhh I'm having such a bad hair day. To wait for them to say nah it's fine. Wouldn't you prefer to have them told you when something looked absolutely ridiculous on you so you could fix it and wouldn't walk around like a moron anymore?
[QUOTE=justme_]Oh yeah. I had that too. But I mean what fun is it to hear you're pretty etc. when they're only saying it so you stop whining? I mean them giving you compliments isn't going to change the person you are. The only reason is it's going to make you feel better about yourself, but you don't need other people for that. When somebody tells you you look good, that doesn't make you look good cause they say it. You just do. Whether they say it or not. And when you're whining like that you're really pushing others away who get sick and tired of it. What you could do, is ask them. Do you like how I did my hair today? Instead of saying ahhh I'm having such a bad hair day. To wait for them to say nah it's fine. Wouldn't you prefer to have them told you when something looked absolutely ridiculous on you so you could fix it and wouldn't walk around like a moron anymore?[/QUOTE]

lol,yea but thats my prob...sum of my friends i dont know that well and well...im not the most "get out there" kinda girl..im the really shy if u dont like me who sorta cares then goes and sits in a corner for hours thinkin of sumthin else to say kinda girl.....i know when they joke and when i joke they know...but sumtimes when i say bad things bout myself..it makes me feel better...its like a deases (sp)...a deadly 1..sumday it will prob kill me but i dont know how to cure it...





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