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Well I was simply wondering what your opinions and views are about my relationship with my ex boyfriend. I would appreciate it very much if you were to take the time and help me out. Thank you. Okay, well to get straight to the point. I have this girl that is my best friend. And we have been best friends for 3 years now. I ended up dating her brother for a small amount of time when I was 14 and he was 16. I ended up breaking up with him and so we didn't see each other for about 2 years. I didn't see his sister/my best friend for 2 years either. When all of the sudden he came back into my life and asked me back out again. I told him no at first. And he said okay and that I was probably right. But after a few days he kissed me and so we ended up jumping into dating again anyways, which was for the second time in our lives. But this time when we dated he ended up breaking up with me. I was 16 at the time and he was 19 at the time. So after that we weren't together anymore for about half a year until he came back into my life yet again. And he asked me out yet again. This time instead of saying no, I said let me think about it. So after I thought about it and decided to give him the benifit of the doubt and I decided to tell him that I would go back out with him, he goes and tells me that he changed his mind now and thinks that we should both get our lives in order before starting a relationship. So what in Gods name does that mean?! Why does he say he wants to be with me one day and then the next he says otherwise? If someone could please explain in any possible manner that would be greatly appreciated. He also wanted to live in my apt. with me but I said no. You see, he is homeless at the time being because of his family and friends not being there to help him so he came to me and asked to stay at my place. I thought about it and said no because it seemed too much like he is just trying to use me for a warm place to sleep at night. Because if I don't let him stay at my place then he has to sleep in his car. And it is starting to get closer to winter so it is real cold and he's told me how much he don't like having to sleep out there. So I think he's trying to use me all in all, but I am not sure. I also think that he may be trying to get back at me for me breaking up with him when we were younger 3 years ago. Because when I broke up with him back then he tried and tried to get back with me for over 2 months and I kept saying no. But ANY advice or such would be GREATY appreciated. Thank you for taking the time to read this long post. Bless you.

Okay, well first off I need to say thank you to those of you who responded to my previous post. I appreciate it very, very much. But now, things have changed. You see, I live in an apartment that's a 4-plex. And so I live in the apartment above my brother. Okay, so I told my ex boyfriend that he couldn't live with me. So he went and talked with my brother and now my brother is letting him live with him. The reason being, is because my ex claims that he will pay my brother money every month. But he won't say when he'll get money to pay my bro, so I don't believe him. And I tried to tell my brother not to let my ex use him, but he wouldn't listen 'cause he needs the money. But I try to tell him that the money might not even be comming ever and my ex might just be lying so that he has a place to stay for now. Because he isn't paying any money to live down in my brothers apartment at the time. For now he's living free! It really pisses me off to be quite frank, but I cannot do anything about it. But here's another thing. Me and my brother share our phone line. Because me and him don't usually use the phone very much and we didn't want to get sepperate lines, so anyways, we do not have DSL and so I can't use the internet while he uses the phone so me and him have found a way to work that out and everything. That was until recently though. Since my ex came here and is living down there. Because my ex tells me that he just wants to be friends with me for now until we get our lives straightened out and what not, so he goes and calls these phone lines like Telepersonals/LiveLinks and talks to girls on my phone. Which is worse 'cause it's mine and my brothers phone! So, my bro will tell my ex he can use our phone to talk with girls on phone lines and so it ends up making it so that I cannot use my internet unless I have to hassle with interupting my ex when he's on our phone with other chicks. And in which case, it does indeed get rather annoying after having to do it for the 8th and 9th time. Because he is always on my phone. So I can rarely go online. Also, his sister/my best friend lives a good distance away from me and so I haven't been able to talk to her for a week now, maybe a little more. And my ex/her brother has talked with her just the other day and so he's had time to tell her a bunch of bad things about me because I didn't let him live in my apartment and what not and so whenever I do get to see her again, I don't know if she's gonna' be mad at me or what. I dunno', I just would MOST DEFINITELY appreciate ANY advice, opinions, ANYTHING that you might have on your mind. Thank you much. And THANK YOU for reading all of this. Btw, I am now 17, my best friend/my ex's sister is 16, my brother is 22 and my ex is 19. I don't kow why it would help any, but I just figured to add it.

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