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My life just flat out sucks. I think that I'm ugly. I'm 16 and never had a girlfriend. No girl has ever said they liked me. I must be ugly because only two girls have liked me online. Upon meeting me they didn't anymore. Hmm... kinda obvious. I hear that ugliness runs in your family. Well I just found out a few months ago that my mom was my dad's first girlfriend and they went out at age 37. Now I love my parents to death and my dad's my friend and personally don't see my dad as a bad looking guy but there must be something funny looking about him if he was a 37 year old virgin. Adding this evidence up one can only come to the conclusion that I am ugly without even seeing me. The only people who have ever said I'm goodlooking were family members (ugh!). I don't think I'll ever have a girlfriend. I personally don't see whats ugly about me (brown hair, blue eyes, no glasses, no acne thanks to accutane, not fat at all, medium size nose), but apparently other people do. To top this off my so-called friends (four of them) make fun of me for this. They are fun to hang out with and like me which is why I do but they make fun of me for the fact I never had a g/f. My best friend always says that he'd wish I'd get a girlfriend. He's tried to get me one too and he tries to set me up with ugly girls but even they don't like me =/. They really just make things worse when they make fun of me. I actually want to cry sometimes when they make fun of me. I punch them for it but they punch me back harder and since I'm 5'6" 133lbs and the smallest and weakest among them I just kinda stop after that and hold my anger in. I really hate them sometimes. I think about stopping being friends with them sometimes but then I realize that then I'll probably never find people who like me as much as they do since I'm a loser.

Ugliness and friends are not my only problems. I also am never going to be anything in life. I have a 1.85 GPA (not even good enough for community college!) and I just failed History and Astronomy last marking period. I'm unexcusably lazy and I don't know why. I feel bad for it also because my parents get very upset with these grades.

Sometimes I feel really depressed like right now... and other times I am really happy with myself. Idk, I'm really confused and these problems are really bothering me. I don't know what to do and I feel hopeless about myself.

Well, um, thanks for reading if you read it all (I don't blame u if u dont its kinda long). I don't even know why I'm posting this. I just have been wanting to talk about my problems for so long and since I can't do it with my friends or parents I just kinda figured I'd write it here to people that don't know who I am. Thanks again for reading I really appreciate it.
[QUOTE=ihateusernames6]My life just flat out sucks. I think that I'm ugly. I'm 16 and never had a girlfriend. No girl has ever said they liked me. I must be ugly because only two girls have liked me online. Upon meeting me they didn't anymore. Hmm... kinda obvious. I hear that ugliness runs in your family. Well I just found out a few months ago that my mom was my dad's first girlfriend and they went out at age 37. Now I love my parents to death and my dad's my friend and personally don't see my dad as a bad looking guy but there must be something funny looking about him if he was a 37 year old virgin. Adding this evidence up one can only come to the conclusion that I am ugly without even seeing me. The only people who have ever said I'm goodlooking were family members (ugh!). I don't think I'll ever have a girlfriend. I personally don't see whats ugly about me (brown hair, blue eyes, no glasses, no acne thanks to accutane, not fat at all, medium size nose), but apparently other people do. To top this off my so-called friends (four of them) make fun of me for this. They are fun to hang out with and like me which is why I do but they make fun of me for the fact I never had a g/f. My best friend always says that he'd wish I'd get a girlfriend. He's tried to get me one too and he tries to set me up with ugly girls but even they don't like me =/. They really just make things worse when they make fun of me. I actually want to cry sometimes when they make fun of me. I punch them for it but they punch me back harder and since I'm 5'6" 133lbs and the smallest and weakest among them I just kinda stop after that and hold my anger in. I really hate them sometimes. I think about stopping being friends with them sometimes but then I realize that then I'll probably never find people who like me as much as they do since I'm a loser.

Ugliness and friends are not my only problems. I also am never going to be anything in life. I have a 1.85 GPA (not even good enough for community college!) and I just failed History and Astronomy last marking period. I'm unexcusably lazy and I don't know why. I feel bad for it also because my parents get very upset with these grades.

Sometimes I feel really depressed like right now... and other times I am really happy with myself. Idk, I'm really confused and these problems are really bothering me. I don't know what to do and I feel hopeless about myself.

Well, um, thanks for reading if you read it all (I don't blame u if u dont its kinda long). I don't even know why I'm posting this. I just have been wanting to talk about my problems for so long and since I can't do it with my friends or parents I just kinda figured I'd write it here to people that don't know who I am. Thanks again for reading I really appreciate it.[/QUOTE]

You sound like a normal teen to me.
I bet almost every teen goes through this.
I guess I'm going through it too..but I choose not to talk to people..so they don't hurt me like your friends.
So just stop hanging out with your "friends" Try to do better, and I'm sure once you get into college you'll meet someone.
I am also 18 and never had a girlfriend and isolated from society. You shouldn't feel sorry for yourself or mad at yourself, you should learn from your experiences and realize that it's okay to feel this way, you'll get over it. Just remember, you'll be looking back at this when your 18 like me and asking yourself if you really thought like that





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