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[QUOTE=pyrorab]HOwdy i have 2 questions to ask about my gf and me.

1. Am i being overly jeleus. Like when we go to the school basketball games i get mad if she says that one of the players is hot or at school if she says a freind or person that goes to my school is hot. But i dont have a problem if she says a movie star or guy in a magazene is hot. i try not to show that i get angery but she now that i do.

2. My gf is always calling herself fat or that she has a big butt or that she is stupid. I then tell her that i dont think shes fat and that i dont think she has a big butt or i dont think she is stupid. but then she gats all mad and pissed off at me for agruing with her or disagreing. and its not likes shes fat aor has a big butt or is stupid. shes just comparing herself to other girls that r were u came almost see there bones and are a unatraktive skinny or the smartest people in the school.

could u help me out please?[/QUOTE]
First, I don't think you're being too jealous. I mean come on, you're her boyfriend. Of course you're gonna be jealous if she's calling another guy (that isn't a superstar) hot.
Second, yeah all girls are like that. I think even though she gets mad at you, she likes you saying it and if you stop saying it she will think why didn't he say I wasn't. Maybe she's just calling herself these things, to hear from you that she isn't. Hmm.. Don't really see a solution for this. Do you want her self-image to go up? Maybe you could support her by going to the gym together or something. Just tell her she's perfect for you and nothing's wrong with her. I mean what else can you do? Also don't ever ever ever look at other girls when she's with you, since she's a bit insecure. Just let her know she's the only one for you and that she's perfect basically yeah. And really listen to her when she's talking. Tell her you don't see any fat on her at all she's just pretty I dont know. You'll figure something out. :)
[QUOTE=pyrorab]HOwdy i have 2 questions to ask about my gf and me.

1. Am i being overly jeleus. Like when we go to the school basketball games i get mad if she says that one of the players is hot or at school if she says a freind or person that goes to my school is hot. But i dont have a problem if she says a movie star or guy in a magazene is hot. i try not to show that i get angery but she now that i do.

2. My gf is always calling herself fat or that she has a big butt or that she is stupid. I then tell her that i dont think shes fat and that i dont think she has a big butt or i dont think she is stupid. but then she gats all mad and pissed off at me for agruing with her or disagreing. and its not likes shes fat aor has a big butt or is stupid. shes just comparing herself to other girls that r were u came almost see there bones and are a unatraktive skinny or the smartest people in the school.

could u help me out please?[/QUOTE]
First off, no your not being overly jealous, you just seem to care about her a lot
and Maybe she doesnt think shes fat she's just trying to get you to say that she isnt b/c she cares about what you think and say. Try not to look at other girls, even though you say you dont, all guys do and it really gets on girlfriends nerves.





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