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Dec 24, 2004
I've been dating a girl for about a year now. Sometimes when she's around other guys I get really jealous, I know it's normal and I've talked to her about it before, but sometimes it gets to the point where I don't know if I want to be with her anymore. She's very attractive so I guess guys have a tendancy to flirt with her. Here's some of the scenarios, any input is appreciated.

-One of my friends, who happens to be her exboyfriend, told me a couple months back that he still had feelings for her. I'm not sure if he still does but I suspect that he does (a very good looking girl wants to date him but he doesn't want to). Anyway, they talk about EVERYTHING together, they e-mail each other and call each other all the time, and sometimes they'll flirt when I'm standing right there. For instance last night he had to get something out of his car (a cd for her) but for some reason she had to go out to get it with him. Another time was at a game, we rode in seperate cars, and when we got there the first thing she did is run over to his side and walk with him into the game. Then they hung out basically the whole night, she had to know it was pissing me off. It's just stupid stuff like that which makes me suspicious. I know she wouldn't cheat on me but it still makes me suspicious. It's worse that its her ex and he was stupid enough to tell me he liked her before.

-Another kid from out of town calls her all the time, and one of his friends told me that he liked her also. They also talk about a lot of things together but she's blind to the fact that he likes her. It pisses me off because whenever he calls I'll ask who it was and she'll say "nobody" like she doesn't want me to know. Again, very frustrating, because I don't even know this guy, but I know him well enough to figure out I can't stand him.

-Lastly, a guy in my school I hate. He's full of himself, and a lot of times when I go to talk to her she'll basically completely ignore me and just be having a conversation with him. Then when I start to walk away she'll quick say something to me as if to imply she didn't see me standing there for 3 minutes. Anyway, one time I saw him in the hall with her and he had his arm around her. I also saw her getting in his car one time (to get a ride home I suppose?) but it was after school so she could have just asked me.

I don't know how to handle a lot of these situations. I've talked to her about the first two guys before, and I told her I hated the third. My other option is to knock them all out, which I've thought about haha. I don't really know what else to do. It really bugs me though and I don't know if it should. I just kinda wanted to get it out, I talk to some of my friends about it but they're not the best at advice. Thanks for taking the time to read, I know it's long, but I thought necessary to get out. By the way I'm 17 if that makes any difference. Any advice/comments?

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