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I'm 16 male, so is my friend.
Ok, so 1 week ago, my friend was really depressed and we had a long talk, and then I felt the same way so I said so. Then more and more he said stuff that applied to me, and talked about some girl ( like he didnt care much about her at first ); the one I like, then later he said that he's telling me a secret and then he admitted he liked her, I admit too. So now there's this awkward thing, we feel the same way about her in all aspects, almost same point of view, like about how we both dont know exactly when we began being attracted to her and etc. and then we ended the conversation. after 2 days we talked and he brought up that situation, saying how it was depressing and we had to set things straight. He's kind of the anti-social type, he doesnt like contacts and kind of likes to appear cold before others, just so you know a bit about him. So we talked and he said stuff like "I can't" "I need to forget her" "It's annoying how I think about her" "Bah I'll just ignore and the crush will go away" and "Well I don't know what awaits you, mate, but forget it for me, I just can't, I mean look at me, blah blah blah" I told him that even if I dont go out with her, I want to stay in contacts even if she changes school, and he said " ok, well not for me, I want to forget her or im screwed"...

That's how it went. Now I'm decided to overcome my shyness ( as you may know from other of my threads >_< ) and go talk to her so that I know her more and she gets to know the "real" me that doesn't show cuz im too shy, even though we have a lot of things in common she doesnt know.. So now, a new thing is stopping me. It's not the same shyness as before. It's him. Everytime I'm near her he drops a comment by me, sometimes mean, kind of a "oh that's right, you randomly sit next to that girl, hmm? " and that is just one exemple. the other day there was a free course, teacher wasnt there, everyone was chatting and she sat NEXT TO ME CHRIST, he noticed and took on a jealous look and started to talk about stupid stuff about me aloud so that she could maybe think im gay etc. Even though I'm sure she wasnt listening to us, what the heck is wrong with him?! I mean he said he didnt want to act on it, then that's his problem. He wants to forget her, not me, why is he like that? A lot of other jealous acts like that... Ugh...

when I'll be fed up Ill go up to him and tell him what I wrote here, that if he doesnt want to remember her, then he gets out of my way.

Ugh... How do I deal with this? I know that if I make a move he'll send her or me googly eyes and then frown from afar and even if he doesnt, the thought of him doing that kind of freezes me, unable to act. Just like the usual social anxiety shyness to talk to girls...

Any similar experiences or help?





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