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Boyfriend Advice
Dec 20, 2005
I have a problem (obviously). There's this boy who I love very much. We've been good friends for quite awhile. He's nice to me and we're interested in the same kinds of things. Something I always enjoyed was doing things for him. This most often was things like bringing little snacks for him and stuff like that. Well, for a long time I've started to develop real (I think) feelings for him. I'm just constantly thinking about him and I've even had two dreams in which we kissed. I was unsure about starting a realationship with him but that's only because I have never had a boyfriend before so I'm pritty much clueless as to how it works.

So a few days ago I asked him if he wanted to start a relationship. I told him that I didn't want him to say yes if he was presured in anyway.

He sweetly said he wasn't being presured and said yes.

I was so happy. I felt that now I would get the chance to openly show my feelings for this person that I really care for.

The thing is... I don't really know what his feelings are for me. I guess I thought that once I showed my feeling for him he would start to be affectionate toward me. But really, nothing has changed. He dosn't put his arm around me, he dosn't hold my hand. And I'm not sure why. Is he afraid of how I'd react? Maybe because I'm his first girlfriend he's not really sure what to do. It makes me think that the feelings are one sided. But if that's the case then why did he say yes to me?

Please give me advice. If possible don't just tell me to break up with him. I really do like him.

Thank you.

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