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recently i have had a major break up with my boyfriend, and it feels like i have been stabbed in the chest. Its not as if i dont see him either, we share the same group of friends. Its just, he said to me that he didnt love me anymore, and that he didnt want to commit, and that being a teenager is all about being with different people and having a laugh. And yeah, i know he's right, but i cant come to terms with whats happened. Its been three or more weeks since we broke up and we had been together for quite a long time, 9 months. He seems to have gotten over me pretty quickly, he's moved on and found someone new. I cant bare to see him text her, or hug her, i was physically sick yesterday thinking about it. I havent been eating right, i'v only been crying. I asked him if there was any hope with us in the distant future, and he said no, and that he cant see it happening. This really hit me hard, because he always used to say that we would be together for ages, and that he really did love me lots. But i dont understand anymore, im so confused, it feels like everything has just wizzed past me so fast that i dont have time to catch up. I dont get it, I still love him. I am trying to move on, i really am, but its so hard. He says im being over the top, and its not like a divorce or anything. But being a teenage girl? I mean, come on. We always feel things alot harder than most teenage boys do. He says he needs time to mess around with other girls, and be with other people. But i only want to be with him. He was my first love. Its so hard to let that go. Everything reminds me of him. I know it seems selfish, but i want him to realise whats gone. what we had. but i know he wont, i like to hope that maybe we could have a future together, one day, but when he said that we would never go out again, that shattered those thoughts. I know you're thinking, "god get a grip, you're only a teen" but thats what it is, im only a teen, everything seems so much harder when you're this age. All my friends say, times a healer, the pain will soon pass, but it feels like each day is a year, i have never been this sad in my life. I know its best if i dont see him, i can get over him quicker that way, but i want to see him, i miss seeing him. I really need help, i dont know what to do anymore. I have tried to move on, and get over him, but i cant. I miss him so much, all i want to do is wake up from this long dream. He just gets mad at me everytime i get sad, and he said that he didnt want to have to commit, it felt like a weight on his shoulders, and that he doesnt regret doing it, it was the right thing to do for him. The worst part is, the group of friends i hang around with is made up of couples. Also, he tried to get me to get with his best friend. why would he do that? To get me off his back, so the guilt he feels for making me sad goes away? I dont get it. Why doesnt he love me anymore? He said he's changed. I dont want him to change, i want it to go back to normal. I feel so lost and lonely, i have lost the one person that made my life complete. I know i sound over dramatic, but... I cant help it. I really need some help. Badly. Please, if you have bothered to read all this, thankyou. Please can you help me?
[QUOTE=Angelwing]recently i have had a major break up with my boyfriend, and it feels like i have been stabbed in the chest. Its not as if i dont see him either, we share the same group of friends. Its just, he said to me that he didnt love me anymore, and that he didnt want to commit, and that being a teenager is all about being with different people and having a laugh. And yeah, i know he's right, but i cant come to terms with whats happened. Its been three or more weeks since we broke up and we had been together for quite a long time, 9 months. He seems to have gotten over me pretty quickly, he's moved on and found someone new. I cant bare to see him text her, or hug her, i was physically sick yesterday thinking about it. I havent been eating right, i'v only been crying. I asked him if there was any hope with us in the distant future, and he said no, and that he cant see it happening. This really hit me hard, because he always used to say that we would be together for ages, and that he really did love me lots. But i dont understand anymore, im so confused, it feels like everything has just wizzed past me so fast that i dont have time to catch up. I dont get it, I still love him. I am trying to move on, i really am, but its so hard. He says im being over the top, and its not like a divorce or anything. But being a teenage girl? I mean, come on. We always feel things alot harder than most teenage boys do. He says he needs time to mess around with other girls, and be with other people. But i only want to be with him. He was my first love. Its so hard to let that go. Everything reminds me of him. I know it seems selfish, but i want him to realise whats gone. what we had. but i know he wont, i like to hope that maybe we could have a future together, one day, but when he said that we would never go out again, that shattered those thoughts. I know you're thinking, "god get a grip, you're only a teen" but thats what it is, im only a teen, everything seems so much harder when you're this age. All my friends say, times a healer, the pain will soon pass, but it feels like each day is a year, i have never been this sad in my life. I know its best if i dont see him, i can get over him quicker that way, but i want to see him, i miss seeing him. I really need help, i dont know what to do anymore. I have tried to move on, and get over him, but i cant. I miss him so much, all i want to do is wake up from this long dream. He just gets mad at me everytime i get sad, and he said that he didnt want to have to commit, it felt like a weight on his shoulders, and that he doesnt regret doing it, it was the right thing to do for him. The worst part is, the group of friends i hang around with is made up of couples. Also, he tried to get me to get with his best friend. why would he do that? To get me off his back, so the guilt he feels for making me sad goes away? I dont get it. Why doesnt he love me anymore? He said he's changed. I dont want him to change, i want it to go back to normal. I feel so lost and lonely, i have lost the one person that made my life complete. I know i sound over dramatic, but... I cant help it. I really need some help. Badly. Please, if you have bothered to read all this, thankyou. Please can you help me?[/QUOTE]
this same exact thing just happend to me four days ago. i am so sorry it happened to you too. its so hard.... i was with my boyfriend for 10 months. i am also a teen and it sucks. i love him so much and he said we would be together forever and all that stuff. but then he decided he just wanted to be friends. he claimed it was because our relationship has grown so much and im just like a best friend now. but i am so hurt.... and i think he is just breaking up with me because he likes someone else. but i have been crying for the past four days and i cant do anything with crying. i tried spending the night with my friend, shopping and having fun but i just cant help crying.nothing is fun for me anymore knowing that he dosent love me the way i love him. i cant eat at all, i cant sleep, i can barley breath at times.. everything reminds me of him. i lost the only one i love too. i know that no one will ever be like him. people say time heals , but its not working for me either. i am counting down the days but what am i waiting for? i just wait everyday for the day to end so i can go back to crying myself to sleep.
sorry i didnt help, i just wanted to get that out, because i am going through the same problem right now.:(
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