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Awwwwww .. I'm so sorry this happened to you. And I hate to say it, but broken hearts are just part of life. Sometimes life really does suck. How do you heal? It just takes time. Time heals.

But, you're so young. My advice would be to not worry so much about being in a relationship right now. When I was your age, I was in a serious relationship that moved too fast, and I ended up getting married when I was only 20. I got divorced a couple of years later because I realized I was just not ready for marriage -- and probably never should have been in such a serious relationship at such a young age.

There's so much to experience in life. As a woman, lots of that has to do with the men you'll meet -- and believe me, there will be more!

You'll have fun, don't worry. Just think of college and all that has yet to come your way. You don't want to be tied down to someone if you go to college!! It's too much fun to be single!!

As far as taking a break vs. breaking up for good -- it can mean both. Sometimes couples really do take a break and then get back together. Sometimes, a break means the end. If I were you, I'd take full advantage of this break to explore other options and really get to know yourself!
I feel a tad awkward for being the only male to reply to this but: Being a guy, there is one of two things that this whole "take a break" thing means. The first one is that he is simply not ready for a relationship as deep as yours might have been getting. He could simply still be somewhat immature in his relationships with women. I base this upon his response, "Need to consentrate more on work and school". This could either be code for, "I'm not ready" or he could acctually need to concentrate on work and school more! Ya never know.
Then the other scenario could be a very phycologicaly confusing time for him. I think you really need to talk to him. I mean who knows, maybe he feels like he doesn't deserve you? I know that might sound crazy but I talk to a lot of my friends and they feel that way. SOme of them have bad grades and don't want to pull their girlfreinds down with them. There is an infinite amount of scenarios that could be taking place at this point, but you never know until you ask. I know, that as a guy, I like a mentally challenging gal, meaning I like a girl who makes me think. I would bet that he might be the same. I think you'll find how different a male and a females mind works and processes relationships.
Like the above gals posted, there are plenty other fish in the sea. And if I may speak a word to the wise: Never enter into a relationship in hopes of "fixing" a guy. THis is just a guys thoughts on this "break up" thing. Also, if you want to know what I do as far as choosing girlfriends: If I don't think I could end up marrying her, then I won't date her. This will save you a lot of heartbreak in my opinion. If you date becasue you think he's cute: dissapointment. If you enter a relationship for fun but then eventually fall in love, chances are he won't feel the same since he entered into that kind of relationship with lust. Take my advice: Don't date pigs, 'cause there's a lot of them. ;) Good Luck!

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