It appears you have not yet Signed Up with our community. To Sign Up for free, please click here....



Sexual Health - Teens Message Board


Sexual Health - Teens Board Index


hi all,

my sex life has always been satisfying for me, but after a recent failure, i have since developed performance anxiety, when it comes to the bed, i find it difficult to get a hard erection, and also difficult to maintain one. but last nite i could make it out at a more thrilled place, but today when i tried it on the bed, I couldnt achieve a full erection, just a semi erect one, and when i was about to put it in, it became even softer, only after some penetrating, it became fully erected, and soon i ejaculated. to simplify this, the process was hard then soft, then hard again. i hope you know what I mean.

i have never had a problem with early ejaculation, i could last at least 30 mins or longer during normal times, but thats not the problem now. i am worried about performance anxiety i dont wish to remain like this forever, it happens so naturally on the bed its quite difficult for me to maintain a good erection before intercourse, i tried not to think about it but it just happen...

is this the end?? is it going to be like this forever? im trying hard not to give up hopes, but i really have to do something about this, i'm only 19!! i cant be taking viagra right?? does anybody have any ideas?? i'd appreciate any help! THANKS
[QUOTE=_korean_user_]hi all,

my sex life has always been satisfying for me, but after a recent failure, i have since developed performance anxiety, when it comes to the bed, i find it difficult to get a hard erection, and also difficult to maintain one. but last nite i could make it out at a more thrilled place, but today when i tried it on the bed, I couldnt achieve a full erection, just a semi erect one, and when i was about to put it in, it became even softer, only after some penetrating, it became fully erected, and soon i ejaculated. to simplify this, the process was hard then soft, then hard again. i hope you know what I mean.

i have never had a problem with early ejaculation, i could last at least 30 mins or longer during normal times, but thats not the problem now. i am worried about performance anxiety i dont wish to remain like this forever, it happens so naturally on the bed its quite difficult for me to maintain a good erection before intercourse, i tried not to think about it but it just happen...

is this the end?? is it going to be like this forever? im trying hard not to give up hopes, but i really have to do something about this, i'm only 19!! i cant be taking viagra right?? does anybody have any ideas?? i'd appreciate any help! THANKS[/QUOTE]
I had this problem too my first time having sex a few months ago. I was so nervous and ashamed that I couldn'y get it up even if I was alone. Eventually I stopped thinking about it and it went away. I have no real advice on how to stop it mine just disappeared I hope ypurs does the same hang in there





All times are GMT -7. The time now is 08:48 PM.





2019 MH Sub I, LLC dba Internet Brands. All rights reserved.
Do not copy or redistribute in any form!