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I got married at 18 to my boyfriend of 19. When I was 21 I went into marriage counceling because I loved my husband but I was cheating on him and being very compulsive sexually. The councelor said it sounds like you were molested as a child. My first response was no way not me. Who? My Mom, My Dad, My sister, My babysitters, who. Then all of a sudden I remembered my grandfather touching me inappropriatly in the vagina area. It began when I was around 2 or 3 with the touching. I eventully remembered him touching me and forcing oral sex etc. It was very tramatic remembering all these things. The therapist explained to me that generally speaking victims usually go two ways. They are loose and compulsive and have sex with everything or they go celebate. I joined a support group and had extensive counceling for 3 years. Then I was classified as a sex addict and joined a 12 step SA group. In the meantime I would tighten up, scream and start bawling, have flashbacks during time when my husband and I would try to have sex. I never thought the day would come for me to be normal but after 20 years of marriage I can now say I have a healthy normal marriage and my husband is the best friend I could ever hope for for standing by me through all of this. I don't know what your girlfriend went thruogh but she should need counceling eventually and you need to be very gental and understanding with her. Eventually it will all get better.

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