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Okay, some background:

I'm 19. I've been going out with this girl for a little over half a year. We really like each other and it's becoming serious. We lost our virginities to each other.

I got drunk for the first time last summer. I smoked weed for the first time 2 months ago. I've smoked about 6 times since then.

Last night, I got drunk and high at the same time. My girlfriend and I decided to have sex. At first it was really amazing, but I've noticed that my penis gets a little less hard every time I put on a condom. But it was fine and we kept having sex. After a while I kind of started going limp and losing feeling in my penis. I started thinking about it, and it went completely soft. I don't know what's going on... I got hard a little bit later again, and we tried again, but I kept thinking about it and it went soft again. I kind of lost my sexual drive and just worried about it.

She didn't mind, and was supportive... But since I was high, I got really paranoid. I started worrying about what this means, and even got scared that I don't like her at one point. I was terrified of this (but thankfully, when I saw her today my heart was pounding and I was happy to see her). But why did this happen? Just because I worried about it? I mean, I've finished plenty of times with her...

Was it because I was high and paranoid? Or is this just a mental thing? I'm just scared that I won't finish the next time we have sex... What if I keep thinking about it? I know I shouldn't, but knowing me, I would. What do I do? Any advice would be appreciated...

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