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Irritated vagina...
Jul 30, 2014
To start off with, my new boyfriend and I had sex this past Friday morning before I left on a weekend trip. This was the first time we had sex, but it wasn't the first time for either of us.
A little backstory, I first had sex 5 months ago, where irritation occurred. On multiple occasions, I would get "friction burns" from rough sex while I was sort of dry. They were always bumps on the outer and inner part of my labia major and in between my vaginal hole and anal hole. This happened three times I believe, all while using a condom.

The sex I had this Friday was yet again, pretty rough (I'm still extremely tight and my new boyfriend is well endowed) and I was slightly dry (foreplay did happen but it was before my first orgasm). I left feeling slightly sore but nothing out of the ordinary. He and I did not use a condom or any lubrication, but I am on birth control. Over the day (all day flying), I started becoming irritated (felt like how I had before). I didn't think anything of it till the next day when I woke up in pain.

Since then, I have been walking around a lot, wearing tight clothing down there, and not drinking enough. It stung to pee for the first 10 seconds or so but then the pain disappeared. The act of peeing does not burn, it is when the pee touches the irritated spots and rawness. Monday morning I bought A&D diaper rash ointment, and hydrocortisone cream. The diaper rash ointment helped the most with irritation. After all the swelling and redness went down Monday night I looked down there more closer and found many tears on the inner part of my labia minor lips, and extreme redness and rawness at the bottom of my vaginal opening (not on the opening but right below it in the little V-crook). All of these tears and rawness have been the cause of my pain and irritation down there.

Is it safe to use the diaper rash cream on these cuts during the night? Will hot baths and no underwear during the night help heal all the tears and rawness? Also, how long do you think it will take to heal my vagina, so it's not irritated to the point where it's uncomfortable to walk and wipe. Any help is appreciated. Getting checked out by a doctor is going to be unlikely since I am under 18, and I don't want my mother to know about this.

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